How successful we are is largely dependent on our “Mindset”
So what do we need to do to get there?
1. Learn to think big
It is possible for you to be very successful, find your passion, and build a life you love, and it starts with being able to think big.
If you think small, you get small results because you impose limitations on what is possible. Think and Dream Big, to open your mind to endless possibilities.
You get more of what you focus on – so don’t waste any time focusing on negative thoughts. Decide what you really want to achieve, make big goals, and imagine yourself achieving them through visualization.
2. Make decisions from the viewpoint of “your future self”
Think about your “future self”. This is the best possible version of you. It is the person you most want to be. It’s the “you” that lives your perfect life and reaches big goals. What does your “future self” want you to do today?
Look at all of your actions through the eyes of Your “Future Self”
Continuously ask yourself is this what your “Future Self” would do?
When you to put things off until tomorrow, or hit the snooze button a few times? Ask yourself is this what your Future Self would advise you to do to achieve the success you desire?
Would your “Future Self” advise yourself to stay another year at the job you don’t like, or be brave enough to find your dream job?
Would your “Future Self” advise you to take action toward a meaningful goal tonight, or mindlessly scroll through your social media news feeds?
Let the viewpoint of your “Future self” guide you as you make decisions in your daily life.
3. Take action even when you’re scared
The only way to move forward in life is to TAKE ACTION. When we are scared of doing something we tend to pick the safe option of DOING NOTHING.
Then we later regret that we have not moved forward.
One of the best ways to build your confidence is to take small steps towards change. This may take you out of your comfort zone.
However when you learn to take action, even when you’re scared, your confidence and momentum build.
You don’t have to start by taking massive leaps out of your comfort zone. Just start taking one baby step each day. Strike up a conversation with a stranger, or ask that person on a date.
Don’t let fear of change guide your life. Working toward big goals and building the life of your dreams will require you to move outside of your comfort zone, and although it’s scary, it’s incredibly rewarding.
4. Set goals in alignment with your priorities
Regardless of how ambitious you are, or how successful you are, it can still be tough to feel truly fulfilled in your life.
Define what a successful life means to you.
- Is it reaching a certain income level and building a strong financial legacy?
- Is it having a great work-life balance?
- Is it about building your own business?
- Is it building your dream home?
- Is it raising kids who are kind, helpful people?
It’s important to think about what it means to you to be successful, and set goals that align with your priorities, so you can work toward your version of success in a way that feels authentic and fulfilling.
5. Count Your Wins
As you move forward with changes and steps towards achieving your goals – remember to count your wins.
This will help you to stay on track and to help you realize how your mindset is changing and expanding.
Soon your small wins will add up to bigger wins.
Developing a mindset for success is not an overnight process, but it can be done. Continue to work on your mindset and your life will change in amazing ways!